Hey ladies I found some tips to help you stay away from things our men hate! I am definitely guilty of a few of these things! I love my boy so i'm going to work on these!
Fragrance
Overload. When you spritz on too much of your favorite perfume,
you’ll be keeping men away rather than close. I like to mist two spritzes of
something not too heavy.
Cakey
Foundation. When you wear layers and layers of
foundation, it will get all over his clothing and his sheets–a major no-no in a
man’s head. Also, from personal experience, guys like to see the real you, not
you covered in ounces of foundation. Guys notice more than you think.
Overdone
Fake Lashes. Individual wispy lashes look amazing
and brighten up your peepers, but at the end of the night when your super thick
lashes are dangling from one corner of your eye, it’s anything but attractive.
When applying lashes, get ones that are natural looking, and add some mascara
after you apply them. Also, be sure to keep lips more natural when you have a
heavy eye.
Dry Skin. What guy wants to cuddle with a girl with dry skin? Always apply
a moisturizing lotion the moment you step out of the shower to ensure your skin
stays silky smooth.
Hairy Legs. Spiky, hairy legs are a guy’s worst nightmare. If you’re in a
relationship and stop shaving, this will literally mean that things have gotten
too comfortable in a man’s mind. Shave in the evening for the smoothest
possible legs (your legs swell when you sleep, so if you shave in the morning,
you’ll miss hairs), and use a brand new blade each time. In addition, apply
lotion after each shave to lock in the moisture.
Yellow
Teeth. This is a little too obvious–yellow teeth on anyone just
looks bad. Use whitening toothpaste and mouthwash. And, if teeth still aren’t
pearly white, try out Crest Whitestrips–they seriously work.
Sticky Lip
Gloss. Who wants to smooch when your lips just get stuck
together and gooey? Try a gloss that’s moisturizing (anything that doesn’t have
the words lacquer in in), and lips will be kissable and colorful. Or, just play
up your eyes and wear a tinted chap stick.
Stiff Hair. Every man likes to run his hands through smooth, silky hair, and
when you pile on the hairspray or forget to brush your locks, you’re going to
look messy and unapproachable. Try pulling hair back into a ponytail or wear
your hair down with a pretty blow out.
Too Much Eye
Makeup. Eyes look far from flirty when shadows are caked on and
piled on top of each other. Use a more natural tone, and make eyes smoky by
smudging your black liner on the outer rims of your eyes.
Bold
Lipstick. Although a bold lip can be super sexy, it’s often hard to
pull off. Guys tend to be afraid that when kissing you, they’ll be left with a
red lip and smudges all over their face, so if you’re heading on a first date,
stick with a more neutral lip.
Hair
Add-Ins. To put it simply, guys like hair to be simple and touchable, so
try and lay off the hair accessories.
Neon, Dark, and
Patterned Nails. This is the one I can’t agree with.
Maybe it’s because I choose to date the artsy guys, but most guys I’ve dated
love when I do something cool and fun with my nails. I think having creative
and unique nails gives you some character; so by all means, rock those
patterned nails and add some glitter while you’re at it!
Tips for a more gorgeous you!
1) Eat Your Raw Veggies
Your mom was onto something when she told you to eat your
veggies, the importance of raw greens in your diet is IMMENSE, a fun little
fact that we all know but tend to ignore. You can get your green fix by eating
the veggies raw or by loading bunch of greens into a shake or smoothie, which
is my preferred method. All you need to do is throw a bunch of raw greens
(celery, cucumbers, parsley, spinach, etc) into a blender or juicer and drink
up for a mega-dose of nutrients. To make it go down easier, I sometimes add
lemon or apples. The living enzymes in raw greens assist the body processes
like digestion, detoxification, and rebuilding.
2) Yoga
Anxiety used to ooze form every fiber of my being. My brow was
perpetually furrowed, my lips constantly pursed, and a blanket of worry had me
tightly swaddled. I still deal with my share of stress but I do it with a lot
more ease now that I have re-introduced yoga to my daily routine. In addition
to the natural calm yoga induces, which many of us can benefit from; it
enormously improves posture and muscle tone and will give you that delicate
ballerina-like gracefulness. And, there really is no excuse not to do it.
If you don’t want to pay for classes, you can get them on demand through
Comcast or Time Warner. Don’t have cable? Well then you can download courses on
the Internet.
3) Stop Stressing About Your
Weight!!!!!
I’m gonna give you another
little tale about my life. I was once a perpetual dieter, I mean ALWAYS on a
diet and ALWAYS wanting to lose at least 5 more pounds. Eventually I hit
the point where I no longer had the strength or energy to care, when I was
hungry I ate when I wasn’t I didn’t. I never had cravings because I knew if I
wanted something I could have it. Within a few months I had somehow dropped
a significant amount of weight and the best part is I never put it back on.
Sure I have my weeks where I’m a human garbage disposal gorging on everything
in sight, but I don’t beat myself up over it and know that it will all balance
out.
4)
Good Posture
The way you carry yourself is
everything in this world. When you’re slumped over or hunched it conveys that
you’re insecure, tired, or just plain grouchy and who wants to be around that? Attitude
is a huge component in attractive-ness and your stance and posture send strong
subliminal messages to everyone you meet. From now on, start paying
attention to how you carry yourself- whenever you catch yourself hunching over,
straighten up, put those shoulders back and blaze a trail of confidence with
every step you take. Mark my word, a change of posture will lead to a big
change in how people respond to you!
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